<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895</id><updated>2011-07-08T21:38:29.529+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Best Foot Forward</title><subtitle type='html'>This is mainly dedicated to young people,Its at a youthful stage of life where choices that determine your future are made.God has alloted each person a time for a purpose, put man on a free moral agency to choose and the choice you make determines your end.Remember right or wrong your decission is for life.Before you take your next step, see that it's the best foot forward.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>15</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-3517798956741779887</id><published>2009-11-25T15:09:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T13:00:39.361+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Welcome!</title><summary type='text'>This blog contains information about many things that I trust will be useful for some one. 
The purpose is to provide necessary information for those seeking to find a companion.

“Before you take a step, make sure that it’s the “BEST FOOT FORWARD” 

Every day we make choices, life is full of choices
There are two major sources of choice:
The choice who follow for your spiritual guidance  and the</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/3517798956741779887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=3517798956741779887' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/3517798956741779887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/3517798956741779887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/welcome.html' title='Welcome!'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-755245632128223343</id><published>2009-11-25T15:07:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T13:07:39.356+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Relationships!!</title><summary type='text'>I dedicate this article to every sincere Brother and Sister in Christ who are confronted with the challenge of finding a lifetime companion in these Last days - the most deceiving of all the Ages. 

Unfortunately, many people have allowed themselves to be deceived by the influence of friends, human emotions, and fairy tale of romance, into choosing the "wrong" mate. If your feet are not sincerely</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/755245632128223343/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=755245632128223343' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/755245632128223343'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/755245632128223343'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/relationships.html' title='Relationships!!'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-1847679962860971996</id><published>2009-11-25T15:01:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T13:24:43.984+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Boy - Girl Relationships.</title><summary type='text'>In an evil mixed-up world, surrounded by mixed-up churches with mixed-up theology, alot has been messed up on matters regarding relationships.
  
Lets answer the following questions: 

1. How To choose A "till death do us part" mate? 
2. Things You Need To Know. 
3. Once Engaged (Betrothed) – Can it Be Broken? 
4. What About Believe r/ Unbeliever Marriages? 
5. Bibilical Mode for marriage 
6. A </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/1847679962860971996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=1847679962860971996' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/1847679962860971996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/1847679962860971996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/so-what-is-it-with-being-virgin.html' title='Boy - Girl Relationships.'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-5966976009001320389</id><published>2009-11-25T14:59:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T16:38:39.746+03:00</updated><title type='text'>WHERE TO START.....!!</title><summary type='text'>In your search for a mate, you begin with Christ. Sit at His feet while in prayer and meditation, making your own calling and election sure, and asking for His guidance and wisdom in finding the "right" companion. Marriage is not meant to be "horizontal" only - just between a man and a woman. There is a vertical aspect to marriage. It is this aspect which brings a balance in any relationship. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/5966976009001320389/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=5966976009001320389' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5966976009001320389'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5966976009001320389'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/standard-must-be-set.html' title='WHERE TO START.....!!'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-6865339254721182945</id><published>2009-11-25T14:31:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T10:11:25.142+03:00</updated><title type='text'>THE CHOOSING OF AMARRIAGE PARTNER</title><summary type='text'>Marriage is something that will influence and affect your life both in this world and in the world to come. It is a sacred and holy thing. A sincere Christian will not advance his plans in this direction without the knowledge that God approves his course. He will not want to choose for himself, but will feel that God must choose for him. We are not to please ourselves, for Christ pleased not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/6865339254721182945/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=6865339254721182945' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/6865339254721182945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/6865339254721182945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/how-to-overcome-youthful-lusts.html' title='THE CHOOSING OF AMARRIAGE PARTNER'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-5687834712114453434</id><published>2009-11-25T14:25:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T13:28:53.216+03:00</updated><title type='text'>THE BIBLICAL MODEL FOR MARRIAGE.</title><summary type='text'> God created us male and female and by so doing He created sex. He not only created sex, but He commanded its employment when He said, "Be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth." Therefore, sex is not only part of God's creative plan and purpose; it is part of the very nature of man. Man is a sexual being. God instituted marriage as His righteous answer to man's sexual nature and need. 

" (</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/5687834712114453434/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=5687834712114453434' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5687834712114453434'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5687834712114453434'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/biblical-basis-for-courting-is-found-in.html' title='THE BIBLICAL MODEL FOR MARRIAGE.'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-7816905275741730327</id><published>2009-11-25T14:03:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T13:46:35.918+03:00</updated><title type='text'>A HAPPY, SUCCESSFUL PARTNERSHIP.</title><summary type='text'>God has ordained that there should be perfect love and harmony between those who enter into the marriage relationship. Let bride and bridegroom, in the presence of the heavenly universe pledge themselves to love each other as God has ordained they should. The wife is to respect and reverence her husband, and the husband is to love and cherish his wife. Men and women at the beginning of marriage </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/7816905275741730327/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=7816905275741730327' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/7816905275741730327'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/7816905275741730327'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/preparing-for-successful-marriage.html' title='A HAPPY, SUCCESSFUL PARTNERSHIP.'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-5677958445740481659</id><published>2009-11-25T13:39:00.002+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T15:36:09.499+03:00</updated><title type='text'>PREPARING FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE</title><summary type='text'>Constructing a building requires careful preparation ,land must be acquired and plans drawn up. Jesus said: Who of you wants to build a tower does not first sit down and calculate the costs, to see if he has enough to complete it?-Luke 14:28. 

What is true of constructing a building also applies to constructing a successful marriage. Many say: “I want to get married.” but how many stop to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/5677958445740481659/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=5677958445740481659' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5677958445740481659'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5677958445740481659'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/why-dating-and-courtship.html' title='PREPARING FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-1042818984647489199</id><published>2009-11-25T13:34:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-25T13:34:56.635+03:00</updated><title type='text'>The VOICE of God To This Age</title><summary type='text'>Thus saith......
The VOICE of God To This Age

Life Story - 08/20/50E p 26 

“Then I remember coming on up. I got to be a young man. (I’ll hurry to make it within the next little bit) when I got to be a young man I had ideas like all young man. I…going to school, I‘d found them little girls. You know I was bashful, you know. And I—I finally got me a little girl friend. And like all little boys, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/1042818984647489199/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=1042818984647489199' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/1042818984647489199'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/1042818984647489199'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/voice-of-god-to-this-age.html' title='The VOICE of God To This Age'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-8763082190759119572</id><published>2009-11-25T13:05:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T15:49:17.349+03:00</updated><title type='text'>THE BLENDSING OF THE TWO LIVES.</title><summary type='text'>However carefully and wisely marriage may have been entered into, few couples are completely united when the marriage ceremony is performed. The real union of the two in wedlock is the work of the after years.

Though difficulties, perplexities, and discouragements may arise, let neither husband nor wife harbor the thought that their union is a mistake or a disappointment. Determine to be all </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/8763082190759119572/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=8763082190759119572' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/8763082190759119572'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/8763082190759119572'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/blending-of-two-lives.html' title='THE BLENDSING OF THE TWO LIVES.'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-5490383271649956471</id><published>2009-11-25T12:57:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T15:58:52.896+03:00</updated><title type='text'>WHY DATING AND COURTSHIP…..??</title><summary type='text'>Courtship is a very delicate subject. Personally, I believe that it should be done while full respect is paid to the word of God. If you are interested in a particular individual, the best thing to do is to pray first. The people I would recommend you get involved are your parents and your pastor. The only way to cope is to rely on the word of God. You are human, created with the nature of a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/5490383271649956471/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=5490383271649956471' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5490383271649956471'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5490383271649956471'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/happy-successful-partnership.html' title='WHY DATING AND COURTSHIP…..??'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-2181665814706201422</id><published>2009-11-25T12:24:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2010-02-03T15:35:02.043+03:00</updated><title type='text'>HOW TO OVERCOME YOUTHFUL LUSTS</title><summary type='text'>Ecclesiastes 11:10-12 Therefore remove (sorrow) from thy heart and put away evil from thy flesh for childhood and youth are vanity… 


There’s a great need for one, and very important to understand about age and the results of the particular ages: Remember God does not deal with years as numbers as men do.... Behold all souls are mine as the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/2181665814706201422/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=2181665814706201422' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/2181665814706201422'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/2181665814706201422'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/biblical-model-for-marriage.html' title='HOW TO OVERCOME YOUTHFUL LUSTS'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-5908792257950237101</id><published>2009-11-25T12:18:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T16:10:36.877+03:00</updated><title type='text'>The Biblical basis for courting is found in the Bible in word, principle, and example</title><summary type='text'>1. In word: "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the Lord." (Prov. 18:22) Clearly the word "findeth" implies a purposeful seeking &amp; looking process. 



2. In principle: "Neither shalt thou make marriages with them (that is, the nations); thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son... (Deut. 7:3) 

3. In Examples: Adam And Eve , Isaac and Rebekah, Christ and the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/5908792257950237101/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=5908792257950237101' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5908792257950237101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5908792257950237101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/choosing-of-amarriage-partner.html' title='The Biblical basis for courting is found in the Bible in word, principle, and example'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-720658875319596525</id><published>2009-11-25T12:05:00.001+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T16:41:34.129+03:00</updated><title type='text'>A STANDARD MUST BE SET</title><summary type='text'>You must realize that as you come of age, someone or something (a group or philosophy) is going to set a standard or lack of one for how you deal with the opposite sex. A standard does not mean a legalistic system or a social straight jacket. A standard is a set of moral and social guidelines that you go by. You could have a very low standard or a very high one. When you go out socially or </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/720658875319596525/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=720658875319596525' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/720658875319596525'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/720658875319596525'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/11/where-to-start.html' title='A STANDARD MUST BE SET'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8518782194607012895.post-5489463254778294526</id><published>2009-09-30T16:50:00.006+03:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T16:29:57.405+03:00</updated><title type='text'>So what is it Being A Virgin….?</title><summary type='text'>I don’t seem to understand a lot these days may be because a whole new world is being opened up to me as I'm growing up. I don't understand why when someone says yes I'm a virgin people look at them weird especially when it’s a guy.


What I don't understand more is when a girl gets pregnant at a young age she is looked at as a slut, a whore or even a prostitute but the guy is looked at as a hero</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/feeds/5489463254778294526/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8518782194607012895&amp;postID=5489463254778294526' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5489463254778294526'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8518782194607012895/posts/default/5489463254778294526'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bernard876.blogspot.com/2009/09/relationships.html' title='So what is it Being A Virgin….?'/><author><name>Ben</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06775189530074991018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_he-igfYRd3s/S2lIAlEBNuI/AAAAAAAAADU/QEO7mfPEMeo/S220/ben+rock.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
